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Being a Better Friend to YOURSELF đź’–
Yep, it's time to be your own best friend!

Hi Friend,
Ricky here!
I hope this message finds you smiling! In the hustle and bustle of life, it's easy to forget the significance of being a good friend to yourself. I know this first hand and wanted to share some of the things I’ve been working on to show myself a little love.
So let's dive into the wonderful world of self-love đź’– Here's a little checklist to make sure you're treating yourself with the love and care you truly deserve:
Be Kind to You: Are you being as kind to yourself as you are to your friends? I know I’m guilty of being a bit of a jerk to myself sometimes. Don’t forget to give yourself some credit for all the awesome things you do, big or small.

Practice Self-Compassion: We all mess up sometimes. Forgive yourself, friend! Embrace the fact that you're a work in progress, just like everyone else.
Treat Yourself: What brings you joy? A good book, a stroll in the park, or maybe a bubble bath? Taking time for yourself can seem difficult but we’re looking for quality, not quantity. Make time for these little pleasures—they're not luxuries; they're essentials!

Say No, Set Boundaries: Don't forget, it's okay to say no. Setting boundaries (especially as a recovering people pleaser) can feel icky at first. So start small. I’ve been noticing when I say no, even to small things, it makes me feel like I can be more truthful to myself and others. Give it a try! Your time and energy are precious.


Ever wondered what happens when a friend starts connecting with someone new? Or how a buddy from one phase of life may not seamlessly transition into the next chapter? We're exploring it all—the highs, the lows, and the in-betweens of friendship shifts!

Remember back in Season 1 when we talked about doing a Friendship Audit? Well, guess what? It's time for a little revisit!
Take a moment to soak in the insights and, most importantly, think about how your own friendships are doing. Are they thriving? Could they use a little extra love? You've got the power to make those connections even more awesome.
So as we always say at the end of each episode, there’s no “I” in team, but there are two in Friendship.
Ricky
P.S. you can find Friendtimate wherever you listen to podcasts, but links to above are to the episodes on Spotify.
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